Christmas for our family is always a big mix and match as far as the things we do, foods we prepare, and ways we celebrate. Every year looks different, and I love that about our Christmases. There are, however, three traditions that we look forward to all year.
My kids started this tradition on their own, and it’s my favorite! All year they each put aside money from their allowance or paychecks, and by the end of the year they collectively have a nice little chunk of funds. They plan a day and go together to a local charity that provides gifts to needy families. Children enrolled in the program fill out wish lists of things they want and need. My kids will pick up as many lists as possible and spend the day shopping together for the children.
Watching them get excited about making other people happy is so precious to me! Knowing that they are doing it together is the cherry on top. I hope one day they will bring their own kids in on the fun!
We have a group of couples that have been meeting weekly for over a decade. Most of us don’t have extended family locally, so we have become each other’s local family. Our kids have become each other’s “cousins” and all the parents are “aunts and uncles.” Each year we have a Christmas party together. We potluck dinner so no one has to do too much work. We focus on celebrating this large, beautiful friendship with games, little gifts, music, and prayer for each other. Our kids look forward to this event, too, which makes it extra meaningful.
Last but not least, we host a party in our home for a small group of friends. We have known each other for years. We all anticipate this night where we get together to catch up, cheer each other on, share some laughs, and occasionally, some tears. This party is something we all count on. We don’t put a lot of preparation into the event, other than the commitment to do it.
I’d say that the main tradition we have is making sure to share this season with the people around us. Meaningful connection matters! We are not meant to go through life disconnected from friends. Our love for God and faithfulness to Him is largely lived out in our relationships. I hope your Christmas traditions include special times with your people, and that the love and friendship shared magnifies Christ’s love for you!