As Christians, we are instructed to “preach the Gospel to every creature” and to “make disciples of all nations.” But that’s often easier said than done in today’s world, especially when sharing our faith directly is discouraged or, in some cases, forbidden.
I spent many years living in countries where openly sharing the gospel was prohibited and could result in arrest or deportation. After moving to the US, sharing my faith met different challenges, as in many places where I worked, talking about religion was discouraged if not frowned upon.
Thankfully, by doing my best to live out my faith through actions and positive interactions, by building relationships with others and gently incorporating Christian values into conversations when appropriate, while being mindful of the restrictions and respecting the environment I was in, I have been able to reach many.
Whether in a restrictive environment or not, here are some ways we can share our faith with others. These have worked well for me in various situations.
Being a positive example
Demonstrating Christian values through our conduct, kindness, compassion, and service to others allows our actions to speak louder than words in situations where speaking directly about Jesus might be discouraged or forbidden. I’ve often been surprised by how small, thoughtful deeds of kindness can lead to deeply personal conversations about life’s struggles and how faith can see us through them. In one such situation, someone I talked to commented afterward, “Thank you for being a gentle Christian, one we can easily accept.”
Listening actively
You’d be surprised how many people need a listening ear, and what a difference actively listening to them can make. I currently have a friend who is going through a difficult time. She often pops by unannounced, seeking a cup of tea and a little of my time. By listening and understanding others’ perspectives and concerns, we can create a safe space for open conversations about God’s love and care without being overly assertive about our beliefs.
Sharing our personal story
As a full-time caregiver of an autistic young adult, I am often asked how I do it. How do I find the strength and the positivity to carry on, especially on tough days? When appropriate, I’ve been able to delicately weave my faith journey into the conversation; without explicitly preaching, I have highlighted how my Christian beliefs have impacted my life positively. Sharing about my struggles and imperfections, and how prayer and faith pulled me through has often encouraged others to recognize their needs and ask for prayer.
Asking thoughtful questions
Engaging in conversations that encourage reflection on deeper life issues can also open doors for potential discussions about faith. This happened recently while visiting an elderly friend in a nursing home who will turn 90 this year. She wondered whether she would make it to her 90th birthday. I asked her how she felt about that. She confided in me that she wondered if she’d lived a good enough life to make it to heaven. It led to a beautiful conversation about the afterlife and how making it to heaven depends not on our works but only on God’s grace and faith in Jesus.
Offering support and encouragement
Offering practical help and demonstrating Christian care in the workplace can have a big impact. While working in a school setting with special education students, one of the teachers struggled to keep up with her large caseload and the accompanying paperwork. I purchased a sweet treat and a card for her. In the card, I expressed my admiration for all she does. I also offered to help her with grading work to ease her load and told her I would pray for her. She later tearfully thanked me for the little gift and especially for praying for her.
By prioritizing love, compassion, and genuine care in our interactions, we allow God’s light to shine through us, often more powerfully than words could ever convey. When we build authentic connections, remain sensitive to the context, and approach others with understanding, we create opportunities for God to work through us in ways we may not even realize. If we are always ready to share the hope we carry—gently, respectfully, and with hearts full of grace (1 Peter 3:15)—we will reflect God’s love and plant seeds of faith that can grow in His perfect time.
If you have not yet come to know the Father and His love by receiving Jesus, you can do so by praying the following prayer:
Dear Jesus, I believe that You are the Son of God and that You died on the cross for me so that, through Your sacrifice, I can live forever with You in heaven. I ask that You forgive my sins. I open the door of my heart to You. Please fill me with Your Holy Spirit and help me live in a way that glorifies You. Guide my life and help me to follow You. In Your name I pray. Amen.