I’ve been blessed with nearly 50 Christmases. It’s fun to reminisce over my Christmases, celebrated in different houses, in a variety of countries, with different people, a hodgepodge of traditions, and almost always on a shoestring budget.

Thinking back, they all had two things in common: we were celebrating Jesus’ birth and we were spending time together. When I plan my own celebrations now, these are the two things that I try to keep at the center. I’ve learned that there are many ways to help this time of year be simple and inexpensive, but still sweet, fun, and meaningful. Here are a few ideas to consider:

  • Honestly assess your budget, both for money and time, so you know what you have to work with.
  • Based on your resources of time and money, choose the number of activities and events you can participate in.
  • Communicate with your friends and family about what you are able to do so that everyone is on the same page.
  • Many of the things that make this season special cost very little, such as playing Christmas music, reading well-loved Christmas stories, watching Christmas movies, volunteering, etc.
  • The Gospels of Matthew and Luke tell the story of Jesus’ birth, but all of the Gospels tell of Jesus’ life. Christmas is a perfect time for reading these stories in the Gospels.
  • Give to others. Generosity is one of the resounding themes of Christmas. God gave His Son to the world, an incredible gift! Being generous with our time and resources helps us reflect that loving gift.
  • Slow down and savor simple things. Carols and candlelight, a Christmas movie and popcorn, a drive to see the Christmas lights, a dinner with friends and family. Make the season less of a production and more about slowing down. This takes practice, but it’s so worth living in and enjoying the moment.
  • Widen your circle of friends. If you know of someone who is alone or in need of cheer, reach out.

Here are my goals for this Christmas season, in this order: 1) Celebrate Jesus and get to know Him a little better, 2) love on my people and share simple joys, 3) slow down and enjoy what is, and 4) stay in budget.

Your goals can be different from mine, but I have learned that approaching the Christmas season with some intentionality helps me and my family get the most out of the holiday.