If you’re looking for ways to make those you love feel special and appreciated, here are a few ideas to get you started.
- Put it into words. Those three little words—“I love you”—are still an excellent way to make sure those you love know it. Say them often.
- Tell them why. What makes the person special to you? Tell him or her, and be specific. Whenever you find something new to admire or appreciate in someone, say so.
- Take time to love. Spending time with someone says, “You’re more important to me than all the other things that I could be doing right now.”
- Don’t wait for a special occasion. Small, unexpected gifts and remembrances can sometimes convey love even better than big ones on birthdays or holidays.
- Be consistent. When everything is going well, an expression of love can make it go even better; and when someone is having a bad day, love can turn things around.
- Be affectionate. Hug. Touch. Science has proven that there are physical and mental benefits to human touch.
- Be helpful. Going out of your way to be helpful or doing more than your share shows concern; it says “Your happiness is important to me, and I want to make your day a little better.”
- Listen with your heart. Make an effort to truly get to know and understand the other person, rather than assuming you already do.
- Show respect. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect for each other’s good qualities. Look for opportunities to show those you love that you admire them and believe in them.
- Be unselfish. Giving preference to the needs and desires of your loved ones shows that their happiness and well-being are more important to you than your own.
- Be authentic. It is often humbling to open up and let others see the “real you,” but it’s a necessary part of uniting hearts and minds.