When it comes to relationships, we can choose to build walls or to build bridges. Our biggest challenges in life often come in the form of loving our neighbor as we love ourselves (Matthew 22:39). It takes effort to reach out to others. Jesus taught that it is easy enough to care for those who love us, but the real test begins when we come across someone who we find it more difficult to love (Luke 6:32–34). There is most likely a reason why our neighbor is a grouch, or the cashier is a sourpuss. Yet, a smile, a few encouraging words, or an act of kindness may be all that’s needed to help them ditch the grump and get out of their slump.
Many people are hurting inside and their outward harshness serves as a shell of protection. It may take genuine concern, prayer, and patience to break down these walls of resistance and build a bridge of friendship, but with time, we may gain a friend or a brother. Let’s take the bridge-building challenge today. The poet, Edwin Markham, penned, “He drew a circle that shut me out—heretic, rebel, a thing to flout. But love and I had the wit to win: we drew a circle and took him in!”
In honor of February, when many celebrate love and friendship, the articles in this issue address practical ways to walk in love. There are accounts of being on both the giving and the receiving end of loving kindness. There are stories of people going through difficult times, offering each other support, enjoying the benefits of mentoring, navigating misunderstandings, and helping others without hesitation. Our feature article this month is an in-depth biblical study on love in its many facets, the starting point being that love is the very essence of God (1 John 4:8).
Remember, the love you give is never lost, and the challenges you face in your interactions with others are small when matched against the power of God’s love. May love be your guide, your light, and your strength throughout this month and beyond.